Sunday, July 26, 2020

Take time to See What’s out the Window and Imagine what Isn’t

Recently, I was puttering on Insta, looking at pictures, trying to figure out what to post for my own Insta accounts, trying to pick a Book Cover picture to promote my latest book signing (wearing a mask, from 6 feet, of course!) and I came across my own pictures of sunsets.  I also came across other pictures of people outside on beautiful sunny days.

I prefer rainy days, but I enjoy sunny ones as well.  (No, I’m not going to don a dress and start belting songs from “The Sound of Music” anytime soon.).  It occurred to me, that I never open the curtains except for the plants to get sunlight or maybe I open the blinds at breakfast.  I don’t have a window in my office at work or near my desk in my writing room on purpose - yes, here I am another day dreaming reader who would stare out of the window all day long if I could and then I would get ZERO work done!

But windows are not just for the imagination, I thought.  They are for letting in some sunshine, too.  

What an eye opening experience.  I asked myself, I asked my husband why have I not been opening the curtains more often?  

Of course, there was no good answer to that.  It’s almost as if I forget the sun existed except in instances where I sought it out.

When I was a kid in elementary school, I was super quiet and never ever in trouble ... except for one thing - I would always but always stop and stare out of the windows when I would be in the stairwells.  I would be late for class, I would take too long to run a teacher errand, and I would get caught and get in trouble for it. 

It was my 4th grade teacher who ended my getting in trouble because he actually asked me why do you stop and stare out of the windows all the time?  I told him because I like to see what else is out there and to imagine what isn’t.  

After that, no one minded that I took a little longer to walk past the windows.  








Sunday, July 12, 2020

What Goes Around Goes Around (aka There Will be Mud)

Yesterday, we went hiking with some friends around a lake in the mountain off the Blue Ridge Parkway.  There are a few different ways to get on the trail, and the lake itself is something you cross while traveling on the Parkway.  So, while we had been by it here and there, we hadn’t actually been on the trail itself in many years.

While preparing to go hiking, I tried to remember what I could of the last time I’d been on the trail.  The only thing I could remember about it was that it was muddy.

While I like being outdoors and spent most of my childhood in a tree, or climbing one, I’m not really a hardcore hiker.   Without going into TMI and too many details, I am not the most surefooted person in the world even with a hiking stick.  

Thinking there would still be mud, after all these years, I still took my hiking stick.  It’s decorative, heavy and large.  (If I keep going on trails, I need to get some of those lighter weight collapsible hiking sticks to use!). 

What else did I pack?  Bottled water, snacks, a notebook in case I wanted to write something, and a small purse (very tiny) with some first aid supplies. 

The walk was 2.5 miles.  There were lots of tree roots and slick spots, hard for me - not so much for everyone else.  We saw a snake!  Actually, I spotted it coiled up, resting and hiding.  I was proud of myself for not screaming!

We saw other families, warning them of the snake sighting or saying “Hi.”  Some wore masks.  Some didn’t.  And there were plenty of dogs.  And there was also plenty of kayaks, canoes and paddle boards on the lake.

It was a beautiful day for a hike.  It was simply a beautiful place to be.

I’m not sure why it took us so many years to come back to this trail - maybe because I’m not so big on hiking or walking trails much due to my lack of balance.  It was my friend who suggested we go hike the lake trail because she likes to hike.  I am glad that we went.  I’m all for new experiences or even trying something we did once again to see what it’s like the second time!

It’s hard sometimes to try something new.  It’s hard sometimes to back off your typical weekly or weekend routine.

It was a good way to kick off our weekend (later that same day we helped my Mom clean our her freezer, and then we did the normal morning chores list later that afternoon when we got home) and get out and about.  You can’t have experiences if you never “experience” anything.

And if the worst thing you encounter is mud (and a snake), you’ll probably be fine.  I kept my white and pink shoes out of the mud by the way, and I traversed even the trickiest of muddied spots without landing in it.

It’s safe to say, in life, there’s always but always gonna be some kind of mud and you’ll be better off for having been in it, around it, or near it!







Wednesday, July 1, 2020

The River Tales

One of my favorite all time books or book of stories is “The Canterbury Tales.”  I absolutely loved it when we studied it in my British Lit class in college.   “Beowulf” not so much even with the movie and popular recent translation.  I was fascinated by British works for some time.

I was lucky as I actually got to visit several of the real locations in “The Canterbury Tales” on a trip to England.  It’s like a wanderer’s tale, all the travelers he meets along the way.

I felt like that yesterday while riding bikes along a river trail.  I headed out on it with no cell service as it’s just that remote and with no maps either.  I suppose I thought there would be trail markers along the way.  There were mile markers and one information billboard, that was it.  I didn’t think to stop and pick up a map or even look for one, just blindly hopping on my rented bike and heading out.

It was an excellent weather day.  I did have extra tire tubes and tools in case I got a flat - not that I have any idea how to change a bicycle tire in the first place.  I had a mountain bike, I think, with those wide thick tires.

So with extra gear in tow, a few energy bars, a cell phone useless except as a camera as there’s no cell service at all on the trail, and water, I headed out.  I was looking for a specific spot on the trail.   This trail had been used for the C&O railroad.  It stopped being used in 1958.  I don’t know when the railroad tracks where pulled up and a trail was made, but it’s a good use of a former train run in my opinion.

At first the trail was paved, then a gravel path finally ending in dirt and mud.  Some places it was all the way across and wide enough for a car.  Other places it was two narrow paths on either side.  A lot of poison ivy bordered the trail, causing me to ride in the middle so my ankles didn’t brush the poisonous plant.

The trail runs along the river.  With the lack of rain, it’s shallow now.  I’ve seen it before, overflowing.

I had to make myself keep looking straight ahead and not at the river so I didn’t accidentally head down the embankment into the water.  (Later on there was a rope swing and I could’ve landed in the river on purpose, but didn’t!  As a kid, I would’ve been on that rope swing in a flash.  Now I overthink things, (sigh)).

My intended trail sight was about 10 miles from my start point.  And along the way 3, maybe 4 maybe even 5 times, I wanted to give up.  Each time I stopped about ready to turn around, another biker would come along.  I would ask them about the landmark and the trail.  Each time they encouraged me to keep going.

I would continue forth a little longer and then get tired and stop again.  A lady who passed me going the other way told me where it was, but when I didn’t find the spot 2-3 miles later I was about to give up again.

Then came along a Grandfather and his Grandson traveling the same way as me, but faster.  The Grandfather had been there before and he told me we were close.  A few pedals later, he stopped and handed me a map he’d found discarded on the trail.  He said he didn’t need it as he had 2 maps already from his previous trail rides.  He and his Grandson kept on riding and I followed way behind them.

Finally, I made it there, to the bridge crossing the river, to the old railroad tunnel underneath the thick mountain rocks.  The Grandfather and his Grandson were near the riverside, having taken the steps down to it.  The Grandson was on the rope swing!  (He did get in the river!)

I smiled and waved at them and rode across the wooden bridge and went on through the tunnel, in the dark, and then turned around and came back.  It was well worth the long trip and I was thankful for the travelers I met along the way!

After I took a few pictures, I thanked the Grandfather and Grandson for showing me the way, and then I made the long trek back probably in much faster time than on the way there.  I had my own traveling Tale, my own Canterbury right beside the Greenbrier river, on a cool summer mountain day.

Stop the Glow

Stop the Glow

Curb the flow
Don’t let the little
Screen
Flash light on your
Face
Take time to put
It
Down and see the
Real
World: forest, waterfalls, lakes
Talk
To people and listen
Read
A book or newspaper
And
Watch the red melting
Sunset
Don’t even pick it
Up
Let that phone hibernate
And
Go off grid

Artemis at Sunset

As this year begins to come to a close, I thought about one of my favorite things to do: watching sunsets.  While I am often up early enough...